Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Yet another article about Hillary Clinton in the Style section.

Last Sunday's New York Times Style magazine ran an article about female politicians. The fact that it was in the Style magazine was my first problem with it. But then, I suppose this article, titled "The Politics of Appearance: In a Realm Where Simulation is All, Authenticity May Lie in the Details," more than others that have appeared in the "Style" section of various newspapers and publications, actually has a legitimate focus on fashion and appearances. Still, I don't understand why women in politics are constantly scrutinized based on their appearance. Are they sexy or matronly? If the first, they can't be taken seriously and if the latter, they are constantly attacked because of their drab wardrobes.

Daphne Merkin, the author of the article, ultimately makes a valid point: we live in a "surface-oriented, looksist culture," to put it in her words, and that affects how we look at our leaders in government. In the political realm, where we're hard-pressed to find any authenticity, she argues, appearances matter. Especially for women:
"We study our female politicians as closely and obsessively as we do in part because they still remain something of an anomaly--we are, quite simply, less used to women standing in the spotlight demanding our close attention--and in part because their costuming is less homogenized than men, offering up an abundance of opportunities for inductive analysis: we study their shade of lipstick, we listen for a note of defensive shrillness in their voice, we infer, we project, we accept or discount official positions for reasons that ar eneither fully conscious nor even rational."
To me, this is an accurate explanation as to why we are so obsessed with appearances, and why we place our judgement so disproportionately on female politicians. As for men being subjected to our critical gaze? They all wear the same thing. "[H]ow many ways can you look at a tie...?" Merkin asks.

Where I start getting annoyed with this article is when Merkin brings up Hillary Clinton. She says that voters want to see some authenticity, or at least faux-authenticity in their candidate, and that goes hand-in-hand with a consistent public image. Merkin argues that our obsession with anything to do with Hillary Clinton--anything besides, you know, her actual policies and voting record--has to do with the fact that we don't really know who she is. And then she argues that this is (at least partly) because of her lack of a consistent personal style. Um, really?
"Who is Hillary? Will we ever know? Not, it would appear, if she can help it. She has held the stage for 15 years now and remains impenetrable, like a veiled woman. [okay, I have to interrupt here. Impenetrable? Seriously?] She is famous for her miromanagement skills[...]and for running an airtight campaign, where no one ever says anything off the record and leaks are unheard of. She seems to revel in being both visible and annonymous[...], as though this combination might add to her mystique or give her a kind of inverse glamour. But instead of being intrigued, we end up being irritated.[...]Why hasn't she landed on a signature style other than her fallback position of mix-and-match jackets or trousers? There is a discernible discomfort with who she wants to present herself as being at any particular moment."

She says that Hillary wears her clothes "like armor, and for all of her newly flattering makeup[...], there is a grim determination that comes through, vitiating all the efforts to feminize and humanize her. The net effect of her discomfort is to make her seem glacial rather than vulnerable."

Oh, okay. Now she's not vulnerable enough? I understand that voters like to see some warmth and vitality and friendliness in their candidates, but when it comes to women, I have to say that we never seem to be free of the scary, ambitious, dominatrix vs. timid, vulnerable, in-her-place double standard. If Hillary Clinton is ambitious and determined, she is "glacial" (never mind the fact that we actually like those qualities in male candidates). But we all know if she tried to adopt a less visibliy ambitious persona, she wouldn't be taken seriously. Honestly, nothing she does will satisfy these people.

Merkin says near the end of the article that "the one thing that seems real about her--all too real, you might say--is her ambition." I say: so what? You have to be ambitious to run for president. And I don't think anyone can argue that Barack Obama, for example, is not equally ambitious. But we don't harp on that when it comes to Obama or any of the other male candidates because that's expected of them. Maybe Merkin meant that last statement in a more neutral way than I'm reading it, but I'm really getting sick and tired of people talking about how Hillary Clinton=ambitious=cold hard bitch.

Before going into all this Hillary stuff, Merkin first made this point:
"It is easy to accuse those who presume to comment on the wardrobe, hair or cosmetics of women in government as trivializing them and failing to respond to their intellect or rectitude. But it is also a wishful argument, a posture that is in denial, if you will, about the fact that we live in a profoundly surface-oriented, looksist culture that has permeated our way of percieving those who would be in charge of our lives. Women are implicated every bit as much as men int he pajama-party speculation that fuels the politics of appearance; shortly after Nancy Pelosi appeared on "Face the Nation" last January, Nora Ephron posted a blog entry in which she mused about the speaker's too-short haircut. Much as we like to think we vote on issues like abortion or gay rights, female candidates by necessity bring too much baggage--literal baggage, as in what to pack beyond a change of underwear--along with them when they go out on the hustings."

Yes, it's very true that we live in a culture that revolves around appearances. But that doesn't make it okay to continue to micro-analyze the fashion-choices of Hillary Clinton or any other female politician (or male politician, for that matter) as serious issues in a campaign or political career. And don't even try to pretend that male politicians get the same treatment (though Merkin doesn't, to her credit). To me, this article is basically acknowledging the reasons for the harsh environment that female politicians must navigate in this country, but just resigning itself to the fact that this is the world we live in. Yeah, it's the world we live in, but it sucks, and it's still wrong when anyone perpetuates this awful double-standard by continuing the discussion. How can anyone who comments on the fact that there are people in this country who will base their vote on Nancy Pelosi's haircut not be outraged? I sure as fuck am.

Anyway, it's not necessarily this article itself that I'm taking issue with. It makes some interesting points, and it is very well-written. It's the fact that this obsession with the fashion choices, personal style, and relative attractiveness of female politicians continues to be an ongoing discussion, and I'm going to be taking issue with any journalist who, no matter how well-spoken, no matter how aware he or she is of the realities of our culture, perpetuates it. But at least it's not cleavage.

Condom Commercial

Has any one seen this commercial?



I am almost sad to say that I have seen it because it airs on MTV, and while I think the programs on MTV slowly kill your soul, this commercial is amazing. I love how it reaches out to our generation like never seen before. It doesn't hide that sex is something young people decide to do, and it shows a young girl standing up and saying no to sex unless the man takes on some responsibility. Sadly, this commercial will only be aired on MTV, but of course, it is a MTV awareness program. I checked out the website a little bit and it is very impressive as well, providing information on HIV/AIDS and STD's, pregnancy, and where you can get tested. Now, if only we can get the rest of our television stations and America to acknowledge this need to educate our generation about safe sex.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

the word Women

I am going to reiterate a conversation I had with my boyfriend last night - It went like this

me- "I am going to make a sticker that says "respect women: don't buy this product." and I'm going to go to the local book store and put them on anything I find offensive" - I am planning on putting them on disgusting magazines. I have already spoken to the manager about my feelings and he laughed in my face and said its funny because sometimes, to be funny, those magazines end up in the little kids section...(you see my anger?)

Him- "Hmmmm....I see your point but I'm not sure you should say "women." Maybe you should say "respect individuals or people." Because using the word women has such bad connotations these days."

Me- "WHAT?! I'm not even saying feminist, or using the woman symbol...just the word women. How can my sex have a negative connotation to the word?!?!?! My whole point is to make it not have any negative connotations. The second I want a woman treated differently I am some idealist communist. Its the whole point to use the word women and you just proved my point why I need to do this."

Anyways, you get the point...Now can someone help explain to me how the word woman has all of a sudden become taboo? I really dont get it. Well my theory is, men are very very secretly terrified of women taking over....Its not just scary talking about feminists anymore- its scary talking about women in general. WTF

Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Career Women in Japan Find a Blocked Path

Article from the New York Times:

Career Women in Japan Find a Blocked Path
By MARTIN FACKLER
Published: August 6, 2007

Despite a law promising equal opportunity, women in Japan have had trouble reaching positions of authority.

read the full article
here.

Saturday, August 4, 2007

Street Harassment: Every woman's favorite part of leaving her home

So I was sitting outside of a suburban Target waiting for my ride, when a group of young men (I think the youngest was probably around 14 and the oldest in his early 20's) walked past me. One of them said "Hi, how are you doing," or something to that effect, but I wasn't paying attention to them at all so I didn't realize he was talking to me. When he said "Hi" again, I realized he might be talking to me, but I didn't respond. Maybe it was rude of me to ignore them, but I felt uncomfortable, partly because I didn't even know if he was talking to me (after all, I had never seen these guys in my life...it's reasonable for me to assume they were talking to someone else-right?) but mostly because I had a feeling it wasn't a neighborly sort of "Hi," it was a "How you doin', baby" kind of "Hi."

Anyway, I ignored them and they kept walking, but, apparantly indignant at my lack of response, talked loudly amongst themselves about how I hadn't said "Hi" back. They said things like, "I was just trying to be polite," and "That girl wasn't all that fine anyway," and then they concluded with calling me a "Bitch."

I'm no stranger to street harassment, having grown up in a mid-sized city and having lived in New York for the past year. But I can't seem to escape it, even when sitting outside a Target in Suburbia, and that really frustrates me. I always feel like silence is not the most constructive response to street harassers--I want them to know it's not okay to act like any woman on the street is theirs to look at, talk to, and expect a welcoming response from. I want them to think about what they're doing, and understand that I don't actually like it when they tell me to give them a smile. At the same time, being put in a situation that makes me very uncomfortable (and, in extreme cases, makes me fear for my safety) quite frankly makes me speechless. So my question to you is: Do you respond to street harassers, whether it's something so seemingly innocuous as a "Hello" or something more creepy? If so, what do you say? Or, if not, what do you think the best solution is to creating an environment where street harassment is no longer acceptable? (Your own street harrassment stories and general thoughts on street harrassment are also welcome!)

Thursday, August 2, 2007

feminism

What is your definition of a feminist?

Everyone has soooo many thoughts about what a feminist is and I thought I would be the first to clear the air and say no one is right! Simply because every single individual probably has their own answer. I find this so liberating to know that everyone is thinking for themselves but it's also frustrating becasue when I look up feminist on dictionary.com I see, "the doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men. "

In a way this is correct, yet it makes me angry becasue the words "equal to those of men" sounds like I have something to live up to..live up to be more like a man..I dont want to be more like a man I just want equal respect, opportunity etc...

Also this definition makes me weary because I feel that men cannot be left out in the movement. Rape is not going to stop until men stop raping! And time after time I hear my male friends, who act as though they are feminists, completely shy away from the word because they do not see themselves in the definition. The definition cleary is talking about women and they are not a woman so...they do not claim it for their own. (part of me is thinking women always feel left out of everything so I'm not sorry that you're not included in one thing!) but the other part of me is thinking feminism is about every issue interconnecting with every other issue and we strive for the equal respect of everyone, not just women.

So- Here is my definition of what a feminist is to me. Please comment back and tell me what feminism is to you!

"I am fighting until every human being knows their self worth, until every human being has a say in their life, until every oppressed person has equal respect and until everyone is able to lead the life they choose while feeling comfortable and safe doing so."